Wanda & Dan, How do you measure the Love of a mother and her son. You and Dan gave Jesse Love and Understtanding that only a mother and father can do. Jesse lived life to the fullest with constant involvement of his aunts, uncles, & cousins. He really enjoyed family outings and coming over to play games with Keith and me on the Playstation or fishing, or playing cards. Keith, Wendy, and I Loved Jesse and we will deeply miss him. Jesse had a big impact on Keith and all of us. Jesse was a man any family would be proud of. I'm going to miss Jesse and the fun we had together. Jesse was a big part of our lives and will be sadly missed. Jesse be happy where ever you are. You will be missed by everyone and Loved and Remembered by all. Wanda and Dan we love you. Love, Gary
Gary Spaulding (Ellington, CT)
April 17, 2007
Wanda and Dan, I wish there was something we could do to lessen your pain. You have always been there for us, remember we are always here for you in whatever way we can help. I believe in Angels and I believe in magic. Magic is your babies first smile and when your baby takes his first steps. Magic is when your child rides his bicycle without training wheels for the first time. Magic is in the eyes and smile of a child when he catches his first fish or baseball. Magic is that overpowering wonderful feeling that takes your breath away. Jesse experienced some of this magic with you and some of this magic with his daughter Amaya. Jesse's life was like a rollercoaster ride. He had many great exciting highs and some scary twisting corners & curves in between. He may have struggled but he never stopped reaching for that wonderful feeling when you reach the top. He never gave up Wanda because he had you and Dan to believe in him and listen to him. He left his mark on the world with all the things he built, from roofing and framing houses, to the Adirondak lounge he built for Grandma & Grandpa, and the work he helped you with on your house. Jesse was a young man who had great compassion for others. He literally would give someone his last dollar or the shirt off his back. Jesse was passionate about music, fishing, driving, and the people he loved. He liked all kinds of music from country, to rock, to rap and he liked people the same way, all kinds. He shared something different with different people. Even though it brings great pain and hurts we smile and cry at the same time remembering the fun times we had with Jesse. We will think of him every time we hear a song we listened to with him, every time we see a fish jump out of the water, and so many other things. I keep looking down our walkway waiting for him to come around the corner to visit. His last day he was doing some of the things he liked alot like cooking steak on the barbecue with Grandpa & Grandma, visiting with friends & family, calling Gary about car problems and to say Hello to Keith and me, calling you Wanda to tell you about his plans to go to Florida in May. We were looking forward to Easter. Jesse was an Angel Among Us and now Jesse is our Guardian Angel watching over us. Love Ya
Wendy, Gary, & Keith Spaulding (Ellington, CT)
April 16, 2007
Wanda I was so sorry to hear about Jesse. I have so many amazing memories of him. The T-Ball ones are my favorite though! We had a lot of fun over there in the Hollow! He was an amazing kid, I just wish that I could have known him as a man. From what my Mom has told me, he sounded pretty great. I am so sorry that I couldn't make it to the service, I wish I could have been there! Please know that my thoughts and prayers were with you on that day and all days. All my love.
Jenna Hahne (Brooklyn, NY)
April 12, 2007
My Loving Sister and Friend Wanda, There are no words I can find to tell you how sorry I am. Jesse Loved you so much Wanda. He knew you would always be there for him no matter what. He was so excited about moving back to N.Y. with you and Dan. He could also be closer to sweet Amaya. It was great to see the bond that grew between Jesse and Amaya over the last few months of his life. Jesse loved his little girl and Amaya wanted to be right by her Daddy's side. Jesse brought much happiness and Love to us all. He has given us memories we will hold in our minds and hearts forever. Our lives will never be the same without Jesse. Kenny lost a nephew he always held close to his heart. Chet and Melissa lost a cousin they had many good times and laughs with and loved dearly. Chet also lost a buddy he knew he could depend on when life seemed unfair. I lost a beautiful person in my life, my nephew whom I Loved with all my heart. Jesse could light up a room when he walked in. His sense of humor, his smile will forever be missed. I thank God Jesse was in our lives. I pray God will comfort you and Dan. I Love You, Chris
Christine Hunt (Broad Brook, CT)
April 12, 2007
Wanda, I was deeply saddened to hear the news of Jessie. You know that I have fond memories of a wonderful young man with his spirit for life and his spirit of the game he loved so much. I pulled out the team photos to reflect on the happiness he gave me as I watched and coached him. It was a wonderful time for both of us. I wish I had done more. Wishing you the best.
Carl Hahne (Pittsfield, MA)
April 11, 2007
Wanda & Dan
We are so sorry for your loss. If there is anything that Mark and I can do for you please let us know. Know that Jesse is always looking over you and he is in our hearts. God Bless.
Jaimee Wellington (Berne, NY)
April 10, 2007
Wanda and Dan- We are very sorry for you loss. It's not fair that our children should go before us. Our heart aches for you and we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers to try and help you through this difficult time. Remembering the good times and the good person he was will help. God Bless - regular partrons at Jerseys
Ron & Virginia Thompson (East Berne, NY)
April 6, 2007
Wanda&Dan-As parents you were able to give Jesse and his daughter Amaya the loving family he desired for so long. You made the last weeks of his life the happiest and you mean the world to me.I miss him so much but know he is still with us in spirit (most likely laughing uncontrollably at our family antics).I am so proud of your strength.If you ever need even the smallest thing please do not hesitate to call.
Miranda & Jared Wilson (Ellington, CT)
April 6, 2007
Dear Wanda & Family: My sympathy to you for the tragic loss of Jesse. May the memories and bonds of family and friends serve to carry you through this awful time.
April 5, 2007
Wanda, Please accept our deepest sympathies for you loss. Our prayers will be with you.
Walter & Brenda Dimmock (Ellington, CT)
Wanda, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barbara Swann (Ravena, NY)
April 5, 2007
Wanda, We are very sorry for the loss of your son.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.God bless Eric,and Debbie Williams
(Delmar, NY)
April 5, 2007
Uncle Dan and Wanda: No words can express how saddened we are by your loss nor can they take away your grief. Please know you are both in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to ask.
